Friday, September 28, 2012

The Writing Rules (Or Why I'm A Fake)


After my husband and I bought our first house, I remember moving all of our crappy furniture inside. You know, the hand-me-downs we’d collected from friends over the years, the cheap plywood stuff from IKEA that we’d (incompetently) put together, our yard sale finds—all of which, sadly, ended up in our shiny new home.  Suddenly, none of our stuff seemed to belong anymore. But worse, I remember looking around this fancy new neighborhood and realizing I didn’t really belong either.  These new neighbors of ours were old pros. I mean they knew things like how to fertilize their lawns and when to wrap their pipes for the winter (and what did “wrapping your pipes for the winter” even mean, anyway?).  I was very aware that I was the newbie at all this, and I was intimidated knowing that I would eventually have to meet these people and then they would know the truth: That I was a big fat faker who didn’t really belong in a place like this. I was clearly out of my league.

So what does buying our house have to do with writing? Well, that moment was exactly how I felt when I first became a published author. I was convinced that sooner or later someone would realize I didn’t belong because I clearly didn’t know the rules of the game.  I was sure that I, unlike every other author out there, was the only one who doesn’t know exactly what I was doing. Once again, I felt like a total and utter and complete fake!

Because the truth is, I just make this writing stuff up as I go!

And not only that, but I do it differently with each and every book. I still haven’t figured out the right way to do it. The formula.

The rules for writing a book.

Flash back to two years ago, when I was on the San Francisco leg of the first Smart Chicks Tour with some of the most megastar authors I’d ever met...and, yes worshipped like a lovestruck fangirl. We were in a library, with about 300 people crammed in it, and we started taking questions from the audience when someone singled me out.  ME!  With a question...just for me!!! I was so excited to be recognized among these super-fantastic rockstar authors, that I almost didn’t realize that the person asking the question had finally figured out my deep, dark secret: I had no idea what I was doing!

Him (or at least in my memory it was a “him”): I’ve always heard you should never start a book with an alarm clock going off or a prologue. And you do both. How did you get away with that? (Or something to that effect.)

Me:  Ummmm.... (And then) Ummmmm....

Thankfully, one of the other authors, who was more experienced and witty and, well, NOT shell-shocked, spoke up and said something charming and hilarious and saved me from utter humiliation. But it made me question: What are these rules, and why do I not know them?

Well, here’s the hard truth. There are no rules. None.  And anyone who says differently is full of total horse shit (sorry to be so blunt about it). But it’s true. There are guidelines, sure, and you may (or may not, if you want to be truly avant-garde) adhere to them, but there’s really no right way to write a book.

Let me repeat that last bit: THERE IS NO RIGHT WAY TO WRITE A BOOK!!!

I mean this from the bottom of my writerly writer’s heart. I know authors who outline heavily. Seriously, outlines that could be considered novellas! And I know others who sit down and start typing away with absolutely no idea where each scene will take them, like an adventure. There are those of us who use commas like confetti and others who abhor them. I know people with aversions to certain words like “that” or “to” or...“moist.”  And I know others, still, who write only on every other Sunday while wearing purple velvet pirate hats and nibbling on chocolate-covered croissants. (Fine, I don’t know anyone who does that last thing, but you get my point, right?).

I write every manuscript in whichever way allows me to simply get that story out of my head and onto the paper. It’s different for each book, and sometimes it’s different for each chapter.  I continue to try different things to see if they’ll work for me, and I continue to throw out those things that don’t work.   

And for what’s it’s worth, we bought our first (and only) house fifteen years ago. Since then we brought home our youngest baby daughter to that house and have raised our family there. We’ve had graduations and birthdays and celebrated holidays year after year. Those neighbors who I was so nervous about meeting all those years ago, are now some of my best friends in the world, and I hope to grow old with them as we wrap our pipes for the winter, fertilize our lawns, and watch our babies leave the nests. 


Friday, September 14, 2012

The Smart Chicks Do it Vegas Style. (Or Pics from the Tour!!!)

With over 250 people in attendance, Vegas gave the Smart Chicks the warmest of welcomes, making us feel all warm and fuzzy inside!  They laughed at our jokes, gave us hugs, and stood in line for up to two hours.  It was a rockin' night!!!


Look at the adorable chocolates from the event! (Okay, so I might have gotten the Beautiful Redemption one upside-down!)

Me, Kami Garcia (one-half of the Beautiful Creatures dynamic duo), and Veronica Roth (Divergent)

The ever-lovely Rachel Caine (Morganville Vampires)

Getting our signing pens ready!

Just business as usual ;)

All of the Smart Chicks: Richelle Mead, me, Rachel Caine, Kami Garcia, Kelley Armstrong, Melissa Marr, Crystal Perkins (the event coordinator from Barnes & Noble), and Veronica Roth!!!



We had such a fabulous time. Thank you, Las Vegas!!!

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Smart Chick Kick-It 3.0

For those of you who haven’t yet marked your calendar, now’s the time to do so because the SMART CHICKS (and one Smart Dude) are heading out in just FOUR SHORT DAYS!!!

Here’s the tour schedule, in case you missed it (and trust me, you don’t wanna miss this!):

Salt Lake City:  Monday, September 10th, 2012 at 7:00 PM. Launch Event sponsored by King’s English to be held at Rowland Hall, St. Marks, 843 Lincoln Street, Salt Lake City, UT 84102. (http://www.kingsenglish.com/event/smart-chicks-kick-it) NO TICKETS. Free Event.
Featuring: Kelley Armstrong, Melissa Marr, Ally Condie, Bethany Griffin, Richelle Mead, and Margaret Stohl

Las Vegas: Tuesday, September 11th, 2012 at 7:00 PM. Las Vegas Shakespeare Theater, 821 North Las Vegas Blvd. For more information call 702.229.5431. (http://www.voiceplaces.com/smart-chicks-kick-it-tour-las-vegas-2881576-e/) NO TICKETS. Free Event.
Featuring: Kelley Armstrong, Melissa Marr, Rachel Caine, Kimberly Derting (Hey, that’s me!!!), Kami Garcia, Richelle Mead, and Veronica Roth

Alberta: Thursday, September 13th, 2012 at 6:00 PM. Chapters Westside, Edmonton, Alberta, Canada.
Featuring: Kelley Armstrong, Melissa Marr, Ally Condie, Charles de Lint, Beth Revis, Veronica Roth, and Margaret Stohl

Quebec: Saturday, September 15th, 2012 at 2:00 PM. Pointe-Claire Chapters, Montreal, Quebec, Canada.
Featuring: Kelley Armstrong, Melissa Marr, Rachel Caine, Rosemary Clement-Moore, Melissa de la Cruz, Kami Garcia, and Margaret Stohl

Nova Scotia: Sunday, September 16th, 2012 at 2:00 PM. Dartmouth Chapters, Dartmouth, Nova Scotia, Canada.
Featuring:  Kelley Armstrong, Melissa Marr, Melissa de la Cruz, Charles de Lint, Sarah Rees Brennan, and Jeri Smith-Ready

Philadelphia: Tuesday, September 18th, 2012 at 7:00 pm.  Oxford Valley Barnes & Noble, Philadelphia, PA.
Featuring: Kelley Armstrong, Melissa Marr, Rachel Caine, Rosemary Clement-Moore, Melissa de la Cruz, Kami Garcia, and Sarah Rees Brennan