ALL SHE CARES ABOUT IS HER JOB (or Mom Fail)
So I was cleaning out my car the other day and I came across this in the backseat:
Sad, right??? I could practically hear Cat’s in the Cradle playing in the background.
(NOTE: My daughter has a habit of drawing when she’s angry…I think she’s a tortured artist in the making!)
My first thought was: “Aw, how sweet, my daughter’s journaling how much she loves her family!”
And then I opened it…
Sad, right??? I could practically hear Cat’s in the Cradle playing in the background.
(NOTE: My daughter has a habit of drawing when she’s angry…I think she’s a tortured artist in the making!)
My favorite part: The alphabetized laptop keys. Wait! Is it bad that I have a favorite part???
Seriously, I get it. There’s no excuse for ignoring my kids, but in my defense (lame justification to follow) I’ve been working under a tough deadline. All day, every day. My friends think I hate them because I don’t answer the phone or respond to their emails. My house is a mess because my husband performs “guy cleaning” which we all know just isn’t the same as real cleaning. And now, to top it all off, apparently I’ve said “just a minute” or “maybe later” one too many times to my nine-year-old.
So yeah, I owe her big time. When I told her I was planning a Mommy-Daughter day of shopping, lunch, and extra ice cream for dessert, she loved the idea!
Does she really need to know that we do this every year, it’s called back-to-school shopping? Don’t you dare tell her!
Seriously, I get it. There’s no excuse for ignoring my kids, but in my defense (lame justification to follow) I’ve been working under a tough deadline. All day, every day. My friends think I hate them because I don’t answer the phone or respond to their emails. My house is a mess because my husband performs “guy cleaning” which we all know just isn’t the same as real cleaning. And now, to top it all off, apparently I’ve said “just a minute” or “maybe later” one too many times to my nine-year-old.
So yeah, I owe her big time. When I told her I was planning a Mommy-Daughter day of shopping, lunch, and extra ice cream for dessert, she loved the idea!
Does she really need to know that we do this every year, it’s called back-to-school shopping? Don’t you dare tell her!
Comments
Also, clearly you shouldn't be cleaning because then you find things like this.
P.S. When she's older, she'll just remember how cool it is that her mom's a novelist.
Meanwhile, shopping and ice cream is a terrific idea!
It's good that you're having a mommy/daughter day!
I believe your work ethic and success are life lessons your children will carry with them longer than their momentary pouting.
Kermit - You're absolutely right, she definitely comes first :)
Gertie, Laura, and Alison - So I'll just keep telling myself I'm setting a good example...
And Kari - I'm telling my husband you said I shouldn't clean anymore. Thx!
Tere - I also like the ginormous cursor arrow on the screen...and the super-angry drawing.
Tam - You always have my back, don't you???